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Sex Work and Sexual Autonomy

By Agnes

Recently, the phrase "playing badminton" has become popular among Hongkongers, originating from the latest implementation of sex education. Many people find the idea of playing badminton to address sexual urges amusing, even joking that it is the reason why it is so hard to book courts at government sports centres.

For some, physical exercise might genuinely be a way to manage sexual needs, contrary to what many find absurd. Sexuality is inherent and varies from person to person; there is no universally correct way to approach sexual needs. The emphasis on sexual autonomy in sex education underscores the fact that everyone has different understandings and perspectives on sexuality, and all individuals should decide what works for them. As long as people ensure their physical and mental safety, act with respect, and do not harm others, they should have the right to choose how to address their sexual needs. Therefore, even "playing badminton" can be seen as a way to exercise sexual autonomy.

Similarly, engaging in sexual activity or seeking sexual services is also a choice. Sex workers, like everyone else, have the right to exercise autonomy. They can freely decide how their services operate—whether to engage in business, accept clients, and set pricing, etc. These decisions, like choosing to play badminton, are personal choices that should be respected, even if others do not agree or accept them. However, in reality, sex workers are often seen by society as immoral or inferior. Stories of sex workers being mistreated by client, such as being forced to have unsafe sex, having payments refused after services, or even experiencing violence, are not uncommon.

When it comes to sexuality, sex education, or sex work, it is normal for people to hold different opinions. However, these discussions should be based on mutual respect, without interfering with the choices of others. Sex work is a choice, and sex workers are exercising their sexual autonomy. Regardless of whether one agrees with it or not, it is crucial to approach conversations about sex work with respect and treat sex workers with dignity.

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